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A+AMissed4ever



Joined: 29 Jul 2010
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2010 10:01 pm    Post subject: Brother and Nephew Murdered Reply with quote
I really don't know where to begin. If you haven't heard it on the news or papers this is what turned my world upside down forever.
On June 19th 2010 in San Bernardino, CA my little brother ( Alex) and his family were eating lunch when his step father in law came in and began shooting at them. My little brother ( Alex ) was shot dead first and then my 6 yr old nephew ( Adrain) was shot. And then the father in law just opened fire on my brothers ex-wife and my other nephew who is 5. My 6 yr old nephew ( Adrain) died about 20 min later and my ex sister in law and other nephew were taken to the hospital. Luckly they survived and are in terrible pain. My ex sister in law was shot 22 times and my other nephew was shot in the head. It is a mircle that they both survived. But i am the one in my family that is having the hardest time with their deaths. I am the older sister and am supposse to protect. But now I will never be able to protect him again. How do I move on? I lost two people that mean alot to me. I hurt so much. I am very angry!!! I cry everyday and talk to them everyday. But how do I know if they hear me? I want them back and I never got to tell them that I love them or got to say good bye to them. How do I ever get over that, not being able to say those things to them?
The step father in law did shoot himself and died the same day. I hate him for ruining my family.
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I Love U Alex and Adrain.
1-13-77 and 1-23-04
Died June 19th 2010
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Margaret



Joined: 16 May 2010
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PostPosted: Sat Jul 31, 2010 4:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
The only words of comfort that I can offer are that I am so sorry for your extreme loss and that there are people out here who care and would like to help you through this horrible ordeal. Having lives cut short so quickly can cause the most horrible pain imagineable. Keep talking to them if it makes you feel better. Talk to us on here if it makes you feel better. Do whatever you can to just keep feeling.
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bexx12



Joined: 28 Mar 2010
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Location: Ohio

PostPosted: Sun Aug 01, 2010 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
I cannot even imagine what you are going through. I am more than sorry that happened to your family. Find comfort in their memories, pictures, clothes, whatever that reminds you of them. They are with you always.
-Rebecca
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Your so dearly missed, my only brother and sibling Warren 9/21/76 - 3/18/10
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