The following message (subject: Re: Old people dying-I have no sympathy) was posted by tricia, on 12/31/2004 11:46:49 AM.

Kath-

It's been only 2 months- all your feelings are so painful, so raw- it was very loving of you to put on your 'sympathetic act' for your husband's sake.

I was in shock when my brother drown- like your brother, there was no warning, no time to 'prepare', for me- no time for 'good-byes'. I am sorry about your brother's accident & for your loss. I hope you find understanding & support here & in your 'real life' too.

Peace-
tricia