The following message (subject: is this cheating?) was posted by sue, on 12/29/2004 9:50:42 PM.

I'm having a hard time tonight, just trying to stay sane. I found out that my brother's fiance is dating one of his best friends. They started seeing eachother not long after he died suddenly, maybe 2 weeks, if that. I'm hearing all kinds of stories and rumors, and I'm trying to not get sucked into the drama. But I'm really having a hard time with this and I'm not sure how to process and get through it. It feels so incredibly disrespectful and horrible. She asks me if I want her to sit home and be alone and cry all of the time. Of course I don't want that, but honestly, I want to scream at her and ask her how she can do this so soon. Has anyone else gone through this? How do I handle this?